Hello!

Hi, I’m Ainsley – A Trans-Leaning, Gender Fluid Bottom with a Switchy Side.

Welcome to my journey! Imagine starting a new video game, full of quests and adventures – that’s pretty much how my kink adventure began. Sure, like every great game, there have been a few glitches and respawns along the way, but to quote the Beatles, “I get by with a little help from my friends.”

I’ve both hired Ainsley as an educator and worked with her as part of a conference production team.

As an educator, Ainsley is prepared, professional and knowledgeable about her subject matter. Her classes are engaging and the results of collected feedback is largely positive.

Ainsley has also worked with me, in the capacity of volunteer coordinator, to produce Westcoast Bound for the last two years. She is proactive, accountable and diligent in completing her tasks independently. She is an asset to my production team.”

Sara Blaze
Producer - Westcoast Bound
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I am predominantly a wholehearted submissive, and I’ve found myself reaching for my favourite bossy skirt and heels more often these days. Wondering about my favourite kinks? I’m always excited to engage in deep conversations about D/s dynamics, High Protocol, Chastity Play, and various predicaments.

Being part of different communities across various cities has brought me immense fun, joy, and gratitude. In Ottawa, I found confidence, something I had lacked up until then. Each event, friend, and mentor helped boost my self-assurance, especially as a submissive. In Toronto, I found my voice, learning to speak my mind, share my passions, and advocate for safety and education.

British Columbia, you have been the place I needed to bring these together and find my identity. You removed the glass ceiling I placed on myself, allowing me to grow and change away from the long-held perceptions and worries about how others would perceive my changes, despite the love and support I always received in Ontario. British Columbia, you are part of the glue that helped grow my soul. Thank you.

New Classes

Check out these new classes I’m working on and teaching.

A Little More About Me

I am always trying to take what I do seriously, but not myself.

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Amazing Years.

I never would have thought that the first time I walked into an event, nervous, petrified, and barely able to speak from shyness, I’d find myself this involved today.

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Grateful Years Organizing.

There is no way to express the level of gratefulness I have for the trust and privilege it’s been to run events and create safe spaces for others. Thank you for trusting me in those spaces.

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Lessons Learned.

Hundreds of lessons learned, about myself, mistakes, and growth. I’m still floored by the humility and gratitude I feel for the mentors I’ve had and the lessons I’ve learned from them, from friends, and peers.

Community Roles

From wrangling rope to orchestrating events, my community roles have been quite the ride. Check out below to see the many hats (and heels) I’ve worn along the way.

Most Recent Events I’m Involved With:

Volunteer Coordinator

Westcoast Bound, 2023, 2024 & 2025

Director of Safety

Kinkfest, 2025

K.I.N.D. Team Lead

Kinkfest, 2024

Educator

Kinkfest, 2023

Presenter

Taboo Vancouver, 2023 & 2024

Co-Founder & Co-Producer

Ropeanagan, 2024

Organizer

OK Rope Social – 2022, 2023, 2024…

Educator

Working out the Kinks – 2023 & 2024

Educator – Rope Demos

Taste of Kink, 2023 & 2024

Educator – Sounding & Rope Demos

Moon Room Sampler, 2023 & 2024